You have to be prepared. I like that they don't share. I mean, it's a Bible story, so you think the bridesmaids would share, but they say that they are concerned about themselves above all else. They won't let anything compromise their chance of getting into the wedding feast.
I'm not really sure how that relates to how we should live our lives, but I know there's something there. Maybe we should always be willing to help people find their way to God, but we don't need to go so far as to compromise our own relationship with God. We can go to a bar to talk to people about Jesus, but we can't get drunk. Just a thought. JM